I found this piece of advice from Master Winson Liao thought provoking and inspiring. Here's my interpretation on his sharing (speech starts at 1 min 27 sec):
Today let's talk about habits. It is an important concept when we consider how we wish to grow in our perspectives, creativity, and approach to life.
It was decades ago that I attended a class on leadership. It was taught by a professor of behavioural sciences who spoke on how habits tend to limit our potential. I experienced this in the realm of Xiao performance.
Many friends face a plateau and get stuck because of habits. They are unable to find a breakthrough. When we choose an instrument or choose our choice of pieces to perform based on our personal habits, then we constrain ourselves. It is very important that we can let go of these fixations. These fixations are formless and subconscious to us.
For example, we may get stuck while learning certain embouchures such as U or V shaped. We tend to hold certain unchanged views or habits, so we need to reset to start from zero, to have a beginner's mind, so as to be able to open up to what is unfamiliar, to explore and try differently.
Just like mirrors, we have examples we can look to for lessons. Some people when they get their hands on a good Xiao, they trust their instrument and thus put in effort to practice and adapt to the instrument. They learn to fully exploit and open up new avenues of expression with the instrument on hand.
On the other hand, there are those who stick to their personal habits and preferences and thus pick instruments that conform to these habits. Therefore they limit their own growth due to this approach of thinking.
I personally experienced the importance of the need to go beyond our habits. Whether it was in my development of the Xiao or in my work life developing systems, I realised how significant was the professor's lessons. We need to expand our horizons by letting go of our habits. Such habits can hold us back perhaps for a life time.
When you reset to zero and explore new horizons, you'll have new discoveries and insights that lead to breakthroughs. Whether in performing or crafting of Xiao, we should let go of our fixations. In the face of doubt and uncertainty, it can lead to infinite new possibilities. The human potential is infinite.
Let me share a story. Since primary school age I played the Xiao and till my college days I had become quite seasoned with opportunities to perform on stage. I felt I was a good performer. I did some recordings and others advised I could even produce an album. I thought I was really good until I encountered a wider realm of music and was awed by the realisation that there was much more room for growth. To date, I still feel I can improve further, whether as a performer or as a craftsman. Continuously practising and refining to progress on the journey of life.
This is a process of learning. I firmly believe that letting go of habits will aid in breaking through. Don't get stuck with thoughts such as "what is the best ...", "what should be the case ..."; there is no absolute as all things are relative. When you've gone through such a journey, you can look back and appreciate that we should sustain such a spirit of learning. This applies to many aspects such as career, and family relationships too. Past habits and ways of thinking need to be reset so that we can welcome what is in the present. My sharing ends here, thank you.
No comments:
Post a Comment